{"id":2152,"date":"2015-06-17T12:58:33","date_gmt":"2015-06-17T12:58:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wp.kmnu.or.id\/?p=2152"},"modified":"2015-06-17T12:58:33","modified_gmt":"2015-06-17T12:58:33","slug":"kajian-wanita-sholehah-dan-lelaki-sholeh-9-niat-nikah-pintu-menuju-sakinah","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kmnu-old.kiarta.id\/index.php\/2015\/06\/17\/kajian-wanita-sholehah-dan-lelaki-sholeh-9-niat-nikah-pintu-menuju-sakinah\/","title":{"rendered":"Kajian Wanita Sholehah dan Lelaki Sholeh #9 : Niat Nikah, Pintu menuju sakinah"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pada kesempatan kali ini, kajian wanita sholehah dan laki-laki sholeh akan membahas mengenai “Niat Nikah, Pintu Menuju Sakinah”. Seorang\u00a0muslim\u00a0untuk\u00a0 mendapatkan\u00a0kehidupan\u00a0yang\u00a0 barokah\u00a0hendaknya\u00a0di\u00a0dalam\u00a0 beramal\u00a0 harus\u00a0 memenuhi\u00a0 tida\u00a0hal\u00a0pokok\u00a0:<\/p>\n

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  1. Niat\u00a0beramal\u00a0harus\u00a0benar<\/li>\n
  2. Cara\u00a0beramal\u00a0harus\u00a0benar,<\/li>\n
  3. Akibat,\u00a0dampak,\u00a0dan\u00a0pengaruh\u00a0dari\u00a0amalnya\u00a0harus\u00a0benar,<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Jika\u00a0ketiga\u00a0hal\u00a0 tersebut\u00a0terpenuhi\u00a0maka\u00a0 akan\u00a0membawa\u00a0keberkahan.\u00a0 Namun\u00a0apabila\u00a0salah\u00a0 satu\u00a0tidak\u00a0ada\u00a0 lebih\u00a0baik\u00a0 ditinggalkan\u00a0semata\u00a0mencari\u00a0ridhlo-Nya.<\/p>\n

    Berbicara\u00a0tentang\u00a0niat,\u00a0 merupakan\u00a0suatu\u00a0yang\u00a0 pokok\u00a0dalam\u00a0kehidupan\u00a0 beragama.\u00a0Perkara\u00a0yang\u00a0dapat\u00a0 membedakan\u00a0antara\u00a0 perbuatan\u00a0ibadah\u00a0dan\u00a0 bukan\u00a0ibadah\u00a0adalah\u00a0 niat,\u00a0oleh\u00a0karena\u00a0 itu\u00a0niat\u00a0adalah\u00a0 hal\u00a0pertama\u00a0yang\u00a0 harus\u00a0difikirkan\u00a0sebelum\u00a0 melakukan\u00a0perbuatan\u00a0apapun,\u00a0 apalagi\u00a0menikah.\u00a0Tentunya\u00a0 dalam\u00a0pernikahan\u00a0harus\u00a0 disertai\u00a0dengan\u00a0niat\u00a0 yang\u00a0baik\u00a0sesuai\u00a0 tuntunan\u00a0Allah\u00a0dan\u00a0Rasul-Nya.\u00a0 Mari\u00a0kita\u00a0bahas\u00a0niat\u00a0dalam\u00a0pernikahan.<\/p>\n

    Apakah\u00a0niat\u00a0dalam\u00a0melaksanakan\u00a0pernikahan?<\/em><\/p>\n

    Dalam\u00a0melaksanakan\u00a0pernikahan\u00a0 hendaknya\u00a0seorang\u00a0muslim\u00a0 berniat\u00a0:\u00a0(1)\u00a0mengikuti\u00a0sunnah\u00a0 Rasul,\u00a0(2)\u00a0memperbanyak\u00a0 ummat\u00a0nabi\u00a0Muhammad\u00a0SAW,\u00a0 (3)\u00a0memberikan\u00a0perlindungan\u00a0 yang\u00a0baik\u00a0kepada\u00a0istri,\u00a0 (4)\u00a0menjaga\u00a0agama\u00a0Islam,\u00a0 dan\u00a0 (5)\u00a0mengaharap\u00a0 anak\u00a0sholeh\u00a0yang\u00a0mendoakannya.\u00a0<\/p>\n

    Seperti\u00a0disebutkan\u00a0dalam\u00a0 kitab\u00a0\u201cfawaid\u00a0al-nikah\u201d\u00a0 halaman\u00a032-33\u00a0:\u00a0 \u201c\u00a0Sebaiknya\u00a0bagi\u00a0suami\u00a0 dalam\u00a0melakukan\u00a0pernikahan\u00a0 berniat,\u00a0mengikuti\u00a0sunnah\u00a0 rasul,\u00a0memperbanyak\u00a0ummat\u00a0 nabi\u00a0Muhammad\u00a0SAW,\u00a0 memberikan\u00a0perlindungan\u00a0yang\u00a0 baik\u00a0kepada\u00a0 istri,\u00a0 menjaga\u00a0agama\u00a0Islam,\u00a0 dan\u00a0mengaharap\u00a0anak\u00a0sholeh\u00a0 yang\u00a0mendoakannya.\u201d\u00a0Hal\u00a0ini\u00a0 disasarkan\u00a0dengan\u00a0 hadist\u00a0 Rasulullah\u00a0 tentang\u00a0pernikahan,<\/p>\n

    \u0639\u0646\u00a0\u0623\u0628\u064a\u00a0\u0647\u0631\u064a\u0631\u0629\u00a0\u0631\u0636\u064a\u00a0\u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647\u00a0\u0639\u0646\u00a0\u0627\u0644\u0646\u0628\u064a\u00a0\u0635\u0644\u0649\u00a0\u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647\u00a0\u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647\u00a0\u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645\u00a0\u0642\u0627\u0644\u00a0:\u00a0 (\u062a\u0646\u0643\u062d\u00a0\u0627\u0644\u0645\u0631\u0623\u0629\u00a0\u0644\u0644\u0623\u0631\u0628\u0639\u00a0:\u00a0\u0644\u0645\u0627\u0644\u0647\u0627\u00a0,\u0648\u0644\u062c\u0645\u0627\u0644\u0647\u0627,\u00a0\u0648\u0644\u062f\u064a\u0646\u0647\u0627\u00a0,\u00a0\u0641\u0627\u0638\u0641\u0631\u00a0\u0628\u0630\u0627\u062a\u00a0\u0627\u0644\u062f\u064a\u0646\u00a0\u062a\u0631\u00a0\u0628\u062a\u00a0\u064a\u062f\u0627\u0643\u00a0)\u00a0 \u0645\u062a\u0641\u0642\u00a0\u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647\u00a0\u0645\u0639\u00a0\u0628\u0642\u064a\u0629\u00a0\u0627\u0644\u0633\u0628\u0639\u0629.<\/p>\n

    Artinya\u00a0:\u00a0Dari\u00a0Abu\u00a0Hurairah\u00a0 RA,\u00a0Nabi\u00a0SAW\u00a0bersabda\u00a0 :\u00a0\u201cSeorang\u00a0perempuan\u00a0dinikahi\u00a0 karena\u00a0empat\u00a0perkara,\u00a0 karena\u00a0 (1)\u00a0hartanya,\u00a0 (2)\u00a0kedudukannya,\u00a0(3)\u00a0 kecantikannya,\u00a0(atau)\u00a0(4)\u00a0 agamanya.\u00a0Pilihlah\u00a0yang\u00a0 bergama,\u00a0maka\u00a0kamu\u00a0 akan\u00a0 beruntung,\u00a0 (jika\u00a0tidak\u00a0semoga\u00a0kamu)\u00a0menjadi\u00a0miskin.<\/em>“<\/p>\n

    \u0644\u0627\u00a0\u062a\u0646\u0643\u062d\u00a0\u0627\u0644\u0625\u0645\u0631\u0623\u0629\u00a0\u0644\u062c\u0645\u0627\u0644\u0647\u0627\u00a0\u0641\u0644\u0639\u0644\u00a0\u062c\u0645\u0627\u0644\u0647\u0627\u00a0\u064a\u0631\u062f\u064a\u0647\u0627\u00a0\u0648\u0644\u0627\u00a0\u0644\u0645\u0627\u0644\u0647\u0627\u00a0\u0645\u0627\u0644\u0647\u0627\u00a0\u0641\u0644\u0639\u0644\u00a0\u064a\u0637\u063a\u064a\u0647\u0627<\/p>\n

    Artinya\u00a0:\u00a0\u201cSeorang\u00a0perempuan\u00a0 tidak\u00a0dinikahi\u00a0harena\u00a0 kecantikannya,\u00a0barangkali\u00a0 kecantikannya\u00a0akan\u00a0 merusaknya,\u00a0dan\u00a0 tidak\u00a0pula\u00a0hartanya\u00a0 barangkali\u00a0hartanya\u00a0 membuatnya\u00a0lalim.\u201d (Hamzah Alfarisi)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Pada kesempatan kali ini, kajian wanita sholehah dan laki-laki sholeh akan membahas mengenai “Niat Nikah, Pintu Menuju Sakinah”. Seorang\u00a0muslim\u00a0untuk\u00a0 mendapatkan\u00a0kehidupan\u00a0yang\u00a0 barokah\u00a0hendaknya\u00a0di\u00a0dalam\u00a0 beramal\u00a0 harus\u00a0 memenuhi\u00a0 tida\u00a0hal\u00a0pokok\u00a0:<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2156,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kmnu-old.kiarta.id\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2152"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kmnu-old.kiarta.id\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kmnu-old.kiarta.id\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kmnu-old.kiarta.id\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kmnu-old.kiarta.id\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2152"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kmnu-old.kiarta.id\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2152\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kmnu-old.kiarta.id\/index.php\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kmnu-old.kiarta.id\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2152"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kmnu-old.kiarta.id\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2152"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kmnu-old.kiarta.id\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2152"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}